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Monday, February 1, 2010

Solace

Takin as an example, Love, a rare and vicious combo of pain, hurdles and the divine feeling for one another, between the lovers (which will only bear fruit with god's blessing, that goes without saying), has been there ever since man was created by god or came into existence in this world (or, since they were evolved from their predecessors according the theory of evolution, as some believe). If everything goes well.. then the story might have a happy ending with no, much of time

But what if, it's the other way around..? a pair with all the dreams and ambitions built upon the base or foundation called "hope" suddenly collapse when a calamity in the form of parents or relatives or even the society as a whole come..? will they withstand it..? Then in that case what are they going to do...? has any one thought of himself or herself in such a kind of situation..? not only in case of love, but in general.. when you have build up your own dreams and suddenly a bash takes it all away.. what will you do..? There comes conscious of ones self.. If the situation is more than that one can take.. some might execute Quitting.. others will turn into wrongfulness.. or the ones with dignity and self respect will face it and takes it as it comes without knowing what they'll encounter later.. and I am sure every living being at one point of his/her life will or would or are going through this stage now..

At this point comes our role of a consoler as a person, and i don't mean just verbal consoling.. something more than that.. now it can even strike you, what will i gain outta it.. let it roll by itself.. Well.. This can be hard sometimes coz everyone is on the shore and you alone will have to reach out to them trapped in the sea.. but as long as u have faith in yourself.. try out to the fullest.. which might change the destiny itself, of a person.. as we think how much strong a person can be at a point even they will feel the bravery is leaking out of them.. and at that point what they'll need is just a person like you.. So it can at times be, just, a few words or even a smile to the least.. and tell them they r not alone.. which can have drastic changes.. more than we think.. because as a famous quote says, never judge a book by it's outer cover.. u might never know what is scribbled inside.. So make sure that u have that friendly consoler inside you and that you are ready any time to lend it to anyone irrespective of caste, creed etc.. and make life a lovely journey for you and the others..